A Meant-to-Be Meeting Becomes A Great Gift to Our Family

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Celebrating 28 years of O’Keefe Reunions, the result of a long-ago meant-to-be meeting between cousins! 

Nearly thirty years ago, my husband Dan happened to be in Arizona on a business trip. He decided to reconnect with his cousin Greg, who he didn’t see much due to thousands of miles of distance between them. During a delightful visit over a few beers, the two men reminisced about the couple of times their two families had vacationed together, not far from Superior, Wisconsin, where Greg’s mom and Dan’s dad (who are siblings) grew up.  Dan and Greg’s long-ago nostalgic meant-to-be conversation became the impetus for starting a family tradition of every-other year family reunions that has enabled once-distant cousins and their offspring to become great friends.

The first reunion occurred over a long July weekend, in 1986.  I had only met Greg and his two brothers once or twice before then. Similarly, I barely knew any of Dan’s other cousins, and wouldn’t  have been able to recognize any of them on a street corner.  This was very different from what I was used to with my own huge family, especially on my mother’s side, since most of her relatives still lived in Minnesota. We often saw each other at large gatherings which included 42 first cousins, plus many second, third and once (or more) removed ones.  When Dan and Greg decided to have an O’Keefe family reunion, I was excited that our children would now get to know more of Dan’s side of our family.

Dan’s father and his two surviving sisters (one brother had already died) and their spouses were thrilled to gather with their children and grandchildren at a resort near Cable Wisconsin. Over pot luck dinners, evening bonfires, long pontoon rides and just hanging out on the beach, the O’Keefe cousins reconnected with each other. And their spouses and children got to know a new extended family.   Thanks to the organizational leadership of another cousin, Barb, every now week-long reunion since then has become even more fun than the previous one.

Dan’s father and all his O’Keefe aunts and uncles are no longer with us. His mother Liz, at 89, is the last remaining member of her generation.  She loved being with the many members of a family that has been hers for nearly 65 years. She especially loved welcoming the five newest additions to her clan:

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Barb, Greg and Dan, along with their other cousins and spouses, plus their children and grandchildren, all treasure the times they have with each other, not only at the reunion, but whenever else they can see each other. Had Greg and Dan not gone out for beers that long-ago evening, none of us would have the precious memories of so many meaningful times together as an extended family.

It’s never too late to start a new tradition, especially for families who don’t see each other often.  I encourage anyone who feels inclined to reconnect with family (and/or old friends!) to do it.  You are hearing that message for a reason. Responding to it will be a great gift, not only for you, but for your children and grandchildren!


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Hope, Healing and WellBeing Show – Broken Vessel Restored With Wanda J Cooper

Wanda J. Cooper is the author of How to Overcome Depression, Illness, Infertility and Hormonal Imbalance and Reclaim Your Connection to God. In the past decade, women’s health issues have increased dramatically. Hormone problems, infertility, and depression are on the rise, as are chronic illnesses and thyroid disorders. Along with these struggles often comes an increasing sense of isolation and hopelessness. Wanda J Cooper shares her story of dealing with various health issues and other challenges, including seemingly incurable physical imbalances, and the frustration of conventional medicine’s inability to help. She shares her personal story in Broken Vessel Restored which weaves healing processes and medical data with a dedicated, unwavering determination to find answers.  For more information, please visit http://brokenvesselrestored.com

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A Christmas Meant-to-Be Miracle Story

                                                                                              Merry Christmas!


On this special day, I’d like to give you the gift of a story from my book, Meant-to-Be Moments: Discovering What We are Called to Do and Be. In this true story, a caring woman, Cathy Svacina, heeded an intuitive prompting she didn’t understand and ended up helping a desperate mother find the perfect Christmas gift for her young daughter:

The Marble Lady

We never know when the chance to show love to another person will present itself, but when we open our hearts to the possibilities, the opportunities are there, especially after we ask for them. That was true for Cathy, “the Marble Lady,” who helped a distressed mother find the perfect last- minute Christmas gift for her daughter. Here’s her story:

I was a stay-at-home mother of five facing an upcoming divorce. Without a completed college degree, I scraped by financially by waitressing, housecleaning, and doing childcare. However, I was still trying to set an example of community service for my children, so I was doing presentations about marble play at schools free of charge. I also was researching and working on a simple little booklet to help preserve the wholesome, traditional game of marbles. Having put aside my quarters from my waitressing tips for over a year, I finally was able to self-publish my small booklet, Knuckles Down: A Fun Guide to Marble Play. I could afford to print only one thousand copies, but I planned to donate

many of them to grade-school libraries and historical societies because at the time, you couldn’t find marbles at stores anymore, and there was very little information available in research materials about them. Quite literally, Americans were about to lose their marbles!

One day, just as I was backing out of the drive- way to go to work, the UPS truck turned in and delivered my first box of the marble books. I was in a rush, so I threw them in the trunk of my car and went on to the restaurant. That night I had a table of twelve people from all over the United States. They were a lively group! I asked them what brought them all together and they said I wouldn’t believe them if they told me. “I’ve got five children,” I said. “Try me!” They said they were there for a marbles auction! When I told them I had just writ- ten a book on marbles, I saw two of the men wink at each other as if they didn’t believe me and thought I was just going for a bigger tip. I took their orders, then ran out the back door to my car and grabbed a book from the box in the trunk. I served them their drinks along with a copy of my book. The women in the group cheered and the members of the Marble Collectors Society of America bought two hundred and fifty of my books that night! They also invited me to speak at their upcoming Boston convention.

It was meant to be. My books arrived just as I was heading to work, where I waitressed just one night a week. My serving section was swamped,

but the boss asked me to take on the big group from another section, saying that if anyone could handle them, I could. They weren’t staying at our hotel and had come to our restaurant because they were tired of the food at their hotel down the street. And that night was only the beginning. Several marble miracles have occurred that continue to answer my prayers many times over.

One of those miracles happened while I was alone organizing marbles in my marble room. I plainly heard a voice direct me to put together a beautiful bag of marbles. I looked up to see who spoke to me but no one was there. Nevertheless, the voice had been so clear that I got my finest draw- string velvet bag with embroidered flowers on it and filled it with beautiful marbles. I carried that bag around for the next three or four days, not knowing why. Then, just three days before Christmas, a meeting at church was cancelled due to a child’s illness. Since I had some extra time before my next meeting, I went across the street to the Dollar Store to look for last-minute Christmas items.

While I was in line waiting to pay for my things, a woman came rushing into the store and asked the clerk where their marbles were. He apologetically told her they had no marbles. She insisted they must have some marbles and again he apol- ogized and told her they had none. At that point, she started to cry. I tapped her on the shoulder and said, “Ma’am, I have some marbles you can have.”

Between her sobs she asked who I was. As I took the bag from my purse I told her, “I’m the Marble Lady!” Seeing the marbles, she sobbed even harder and asked for my email so she could explain later because she had to rush off right then.

That night I received an email from her:

Dearest Marble Lady,

My little girl, Michaela, is our adopted daughter. We just finalized her adoption on the fourth of November. While in foster care, she experienced horrendous physical, sexual, and mental abuse no one should ever experience, let alone a three-year-old child. Michaela came to live with us at age three and a half, and is now five years old. She has made tremendous progress and continues to progress and heal daily. She is pure, non- materialistic, and she loves the Lord.

For the last week, I have been looking all over town for marbles for her. That’s all she wants for Christmas— just marbles! I looked everywhere, but I couldn’t find them anywhere. I was very upset. The night before I saw you, I prayed that the dear Lord would help me find marbles for my little girl. The next day, something told me to go to the Dollar Store, and you know the rest of the story. Now, how many times have you been in line at the Dollar Store needing marbles, and the lady behind you happens to have a bag of them in her purse? This was Divine intervention and you were an angel for my daughter this Christmas. I can’t thank you enough!”

I keep her email in my journal, and ever since I received it, I ask God in my daily morning prayer to help me tune in to anyone nearby that might need my help! That prayer has been answered over and over; I have learned not to question that still, small voice when it speaks to me! And, I’ve stayed connected with Michaela’s mom, who says that she still plays with her marbles. I will be sending Michaela a very special bag this Christmas!

—Cathy Svacina

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A Meant-to-Be Moment Song Sign From My Father

Today is December 11, 2014, the day my second book, Meant-to-Be Moments: Discovering What We are Called to Do and Be, is being launched on Amazon. In conjunction with this event, I have been on several radio shows discussing ‘meant-to-be moments”.   Today, on the third interview of the day (things in threes are often ‘meant-to-be’ to me), the host took a break and played an Irish song, in honor of my Irish heritage. As I heard the words of the Irish Rovers sing their signature song, The Unicorn Song, my eyes filled with tears. My now-deceased dad loved the Irish Rovers, along with Tommy Makem and the Clancy Boys, the popular Irish group. For some unknown reason, the host of the show happened to mention how he liked the Clancy Boys, even though he is Jewish, not Irish.  When I was in high school, my dad often played both The Unicorn Song and many of his favorite Clancy Boys songs on Saturdays while we did our chores around the house. So hearing this song on a significant day like today was a touching ‘thin place’ moment for me, reminding of his continued love and presence in my life.

And speaking of the book launch, here’s my shameless marketing effort: When you purchase Meant-to-Be Moments today, Dec. 11, your name will be entered into drawings for a variety of prices and a free PDF of my first book, Thin Places: Where Faith is Affirmed and Hope Dwells.  Please check my website for prize details: www.marytreacyokeefe.com or visit my Facebook page for Mary Treacy O’Keefe. You can learn more about the book, including reviews and purchase information via this link to Amazon:  http://tinyurl.com/knw852c.  Thank you!!

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Hope, Healing and WellBeing Show – The Gift of Cancer: A Miraculous Journey to Healing with Brenda Michaels and Marsha Mercant


Brenda Michaels  is an inspiring, insightful, and passionate communicator. Through her current work as the syndicated talk-show host of Conscious Talk and The Women’s Hour, as a public speaker, workshop leader, spiritual and emotional coach, anchor writer for Sibyl Magazine, and a member of the Advisory Board for the Emerald Heart Cancer Foundation, Brenda’s leadership in raising awareness is a true demonstration of her commitment to living upon this planet as a conscious being.She and her husband Rob Spears, himself a cancer survivor co-host a highly successful daily radio show, Conscious Talk on KKNW out of Seattle, Washington.Marsha Mercant is a multi-award-winning actor/singer and voice over-artist who has turned her creative passion to writing through her company, Write To Speak LLC. She has edited and co-written several books as well as writing her first play, When You Get There, currently being shopped for production.
In their book, The Gift of Cancer: A Miraculous Journey to Healing, Brenda Michaels and co-author Marsha Mercant provide inspiration and hope to anyone seeking wellbeing, whether suffering from a life-threatening disease or merely desiring to live a better more fulfilling life. It teaches that when we are willing to look deep within and take responsibility for our choices, we have the power to alter the course of our lives in miraculous and unexpected ways. Brenda and Marsha describe how they met, while in Los Angeles at a book launch. Marsha was a co-editor and contributor to that project. Having recently lost her best friend of 45 years to cancer, Marsha was immediately drawn to Brenda and an instantaneous bond between them was sealed.

Brenda Michaels has dealt with cancer, not just once but three times. After the third diagnosis, when she was given a year to live, she paid attention and responded to what her body told her.  Eventually she came to believe that cancer was a gift because the cancer was saving her life in that she was not on the path her soul desired. The disease brought her back to her path and she continues to find gifts in cancer and other life challenges.

Marsha discussed how their book is not just about healing from cancer. We all need to heal our lives in some way. The principles of the book can be applied to any situation. The Gift of Cancer emphasizes mental, physical and spiritual healing.  Brenda described how words have power because the body hears what we think and say.  For example, when you are geared up to fight something attacking you, this creates a stressful situation. Our bodies can’t heal properly when they are too stressed and not peaceful.
Brenda shares some of the things she did to contribute to her healing. including shifting her perspective about what she had heard about cancer. She saw it as a symptom of “dis-ease” within her. She created a dialogue with the cancer. and allowed it to teach her rather than be “an enemy. ” By making peace with the death process, she was able to move through the fear of death and live more fully. She has had incredibly good health since her last diagnosis twenty five years ago. Marsha describes the impact of working on the book with Brenda and how it became life-changing. As she says ” when we tell each other other our stories, we realize how alike we are than we are different.  We are not alone.”

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Book Launch For Meant-to-Be Moments on Nov. 18, 2014 in St. Paul, MN

FINAL Meant to Be Moments cover copy

Please join me at the book launch for Meant-to-Be Moments: Discovering  What We are Called to Do and Be, at 7pm, November 18, 2014 at Assumption Church, lower level, 51 W. 7th St. W, St. Paul, MN.

Here’s a story that opens my book, about the first time I experienced a meant-to-be moment in my own life:

“Get out of the car,” a voice inside me whispered one cold Minnesota evening as my boyfriend and I sat talking in his car in front of my parents’ home. Not wanting to explain to Dan (now my husband of more than forty years) that I was hearing voices, I ignored it. But when that voice became an urgent command, “Get out of the car, NOW!” I obeyed. Moments after my perplexed date and I were safely inside the house, a drunk driver smashed into Dan’s car and sent it careening into the neighbor’s yard.

There was an explanation for the accident: the driver drank too much, lost control of his car, and drove headlong into ours. Yet the voice I heard seemed meant to be: it saved our lives. But where had the voice come from? Had it been luck? My overactive imagination? Or was it the “still, small voice” that Scripture says comes from God? (1 Kings 19:12 KJV)

Since that long-ago incident and others like it, I’ve wondered: Are some experiences meant to be? Does God really call us to be a certain way and do certain things? Is there really a Divine master plan? And if so, what is our role in the plan?


My second book, Meant-to-Be Moments:Discovering What We are Called to Do and Be contains fifty-five inspiring and hope-filled stories along a four-part process for finding meaning within your own meant-to-be moments. If you are in or near the Twin Cities, I hope to see you tomorrow night! If not, the book is now available on Amazon.com and Barnesandnoble.com.  Watch for more news about the Amazon book launch, with prizes, to be held on Dec. 10.  And please continue to email me at mtbstories@gmail.com, with any meant-to-be stories to be considered for publication in my next book! Thank you!

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Hope, Healing and WellBeing Show – My Marriage, My Family and Alzheimer’s Disease with Barbara Blanch Roy

In her book, Under The Bridge Backwards: My Marriage, My Family and Alzheimer’s, Barbara Blanch Roy shares her story of life with her husband Phil after he was diagnosed with Early Onset Alzheimer’s Disease. In his early sixties when diagnosed, he had retired a few years earlier after many years as a surgeon.

Barbara describes the meaning of the title of her book by telling how she and Phil were swept backward under a bridge and into the Mississippi River after their boat’s engine stalled several years ago. The experience of losing control left her grateful that the event wasn’t catastrophic, and the event later became a metaphor for what living with Alzheimer’s Disease became for her and her family.

She felt compelled to write her family’s story, not only for herself and her family, but also to help others going through their own experiences with Alzheimer’s Disease. After Phil died, she needed to pick up the pieces and “hold them in her heart and put them into an integrative whole.”  Her book was a cathartic way to tell her story honestly and also authentically affirm experiences of other caregivers.  Although each person’s story is different, the sense of loss and being out of control are consistent for anyone who lives with a loved one with dementia.

Tune in to discover how Barbara and her family learned to “live into” the reality of having a husband and father with early onset Alzheimer’s Disease. Learn how family and friends helped the couple, and how important it was for Barbara to take good care of herself during the final years of her husband’s life. Her compelling story, strong faith, wise insights and practical suggestions are helpful for caregivers and anyone facing their own challenges.

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Hope, Healing and WellBeing Show– You are Worth It with Louise Griffith

Louise Griffith, MA, LP, is a dynamic and passionate speaker and greatness coach whose message is filled with life-changing concepts and insights.  Drawing on her experience as a licensed psychologist, author and educator, Louise offers thought-provoking direction and guidance.  She is also a certified facilitator for the Og Mandino Success System™ and Managing Your SIX Advisors™. Louise helps individuals find, understand and use their gifts and strengths.

Louise begins our conversation by discussing the title of her book,You Are Worth It: 52 Weeks to Honoring, Loving and Nurturing Your Soul, including how important it is for all of us to feel like we are “worth it” both personally and professionally.  Her beautiful book offers a weekly topics for reflection and include an inspiring quote, questions to ponder, affirmations and next steps.

For example, in Week 3 Louise invites us to “Choose Your Story” and reframe the often-shaming words we hear internally, ones that are often hurtful messages we’ve heard in the past. These messages can cause us to “play small” and are not living-giving. As she says, “If your story isn’t making you feel worth it, then choose a new story so you can live the life you could be living.”  Louise also discusses how “Wisdom is to the soul as health is to the body” so we need to  honor our wisdom!  She encourages us to listen to our inner voice by pausing and heeding our intuition. Fear often disconnects us from our wisdom.

For information, please contact Louise at louise@oneshininglight.com  or visit www.oneshininglight.com

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Hope, Healing and WellBeing Show– Do You Quantum Think? with Diane Collins

Dianne Collins’ entire life has been devoted to the question: what is the access to creating the results we truly desire? After studying everything from physics to metaphysics she made “a few life altering discoveries that led her to create the QuantumThink® model—a system of thinking comprised of principles and practices that make it quick and easy for anyone to live the wisdom of science and spirituality in everyday life—not just to know the principles—to embody them.”

Dianne Collins is a modern visionary, an original thinker, an authority in new world view thinking and the creator and author of the QuantumThink® system of thinking, an unprecedented body of knowledge based in the principles of quantum science and universal laws applied as practical wisdom in all areas of life.  She is a graduate of the University of Miami in Philosophy and Psychology and a lifelong student of Siddha Yoga and numerous leading edge modalities and models that make life better and more joyful.Her highly acclaimed new book, Do You QuantumThink? New Thinking That Will Rock Your World is achieving popular viral status; as was stated by renowned attorney, Roy Black, “This book should be required reading by all literate human beings.”

Her varied experiences as a Fortune 100 corporate manager, an award-winning photographic artist, a video producer, and currently as a consultant to business executives and entrepreneurs, all contribute to her extraordinary gift of originality and ability to express complex universal subjects in clear and powerful ways that benefit people instantly. She provides a big picture view that makes sense of the changes all around us and makes it entertaining and enjoyable to think effectively in sync with today’s world.

Tune in to hear about this new system of thinking, including a discussion of some of the 21 principles that she discusses in her new book, Do You Quantum Think?

For more information, please visit www.diannecollins.com.

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Hope, Healing and WellBeing Show – Strangers Restore Justice for an Innocent Man with Trudy Baltazar

Author of a Road To Freedom: Strangers Restore Justice for an Innocent Man, Trudy Baltazar, grew up in St. Paul, MN. She had a challenging childhood and young adult life which she feels has given her compassion for others and a desire for justice.

Trudy gained recognition for her efforts in helping free a wrongfully convicted husband/father after he drove a car that suddenly accelerated and caused the deaths of three people. The driver, Koua Fong Lee was sentenced to 8 years in prison for something Trudy feels was not his fault.

She didn’t know Koua, but felt compelled to help him. Through the process, she ended up finding freedom from her own adversities in life and learned some things she believes she wouldn’t have learned or realized had she not helped this family.

Tune in to hear Trudy’s faith-filled and inspiring story about how helping a stranger transformed his life and hers too.

For more information, please visit http://trulinespublishing.com.

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